Kandi Burruss confirms Todd Tucker cheated during one-woman show “I Do. I Did. I’m Done!”
The singer and former RHOA star performed at City Winery Atlanta, telling the audience she discovered text messages in July 2025 and filed for divorce after his dismissive response.
Kandi Burruss performed her one-woman show “I Do. I Did. I’m Done!” at City Winery Atlanta on April 27, 2026. The production combined musical performances, storytelling, and interactive segments. Burruss, a former cast member of The Real Housewives of Atlanta, confirmed during the show that her ex-husband Todd Tucker cheated on her. She said she discovered text messages on her phone in July 2025 and that Tucker’s dismissive response after being confronted pushed her to file for divorce.
The show was promoted in advance with Burruss posting on social media, “My man’s been cheating on me!” Tickets sold out quickly, leading to additional dates. The venue enforced a strict phone policy, requiring attendees to lock their devices in Yondr pouches upon entry. That policy has resulted in a lack of video footage from the performance, with most information coming from attendee recaps posted on TikTok and other platforms.
Now, these rumors have led to additional speculation about Kandi and Todd’s divorce.
White Wedding Dress Removed to Reveal Sexy Jumpsuit
Kandi entered the stage in a white wedding dress. She later removed the dress to reveal a white corset-style top paired with lace pants or a jumpsuit, according to multiple attendee reports. The stage lighting and City Winery Atlanta banner were visible in the background. The outfit change was described as a symbolic shedding of the marriage.
The performance included multiple costume changes. One image from the show shows Burruss in a red form‑fitting outfit, possibly from a different segment. Another image captures a guest or participant in the background near a microphone stand. The photographs circulating the internet appear to have been taken by an attendee with production access or someone who was able to sneak photos despite the phone policy.
The staging included elements from Burruss’s previous Kandi Koated Nights events, which often feature intimate discussion formats and audience interaction. The production blended her musical catalog with new material and personal revelations.
July 2025 Discovery and Text Messages
Kandi Burruss told the audience that she discovered Todd Tucker’s infidelity on a specific date in July 2025. She said she found text messages on her phone confirming the cheating. Multiple attendee recaps indicate that she referenced or displayed elements of these messages from the stage, though it is unclear whether she read the texts aloud.
She said she believed she could move past the act of cheating itself. However, she stated that Tucker’s response after being confronted made reconciliation impossible. According to Burruss, Tucker’s attitude was dismissive, along the lines of “oh well, you’ll deal with it.” That reaction, she said, was when she decided to file for divorce.
The divorce was filed on November 21, 2025. It was finalized in March 2026. The settlement included a lump-sum payment of approximately $426,000 from Burruss to Tucker, with no alimony or child support obligations for either party. The couple shares joint custody of their two children.
“My Man Cheated on Me” Call-and-Response Song
Kandi performed a song titled “My Man Cheated on Me” during the show. She incorporated a call-and-response format, with the audience repeating the phrase “My man cheated on me” when prompted. The segment was described by attendees as both cathartic and entertaining, blending the serious subject matter with Burruss’s musical style.
She also performed several of her older songs, including material from her solo career and from her time with the group Xscape. The setlist included both established hits and new material. The musical performances were interspersed with storytelling segments that detailed the end of her marriage.
The show also included a “Speak On It” segment, a conversational format similar to segments from her prior television and online appearances. The overall tone was described by attendees as celebratory of Burruss’s career while directly addressing the marital circumstances.
Kandi Koated Nights Segment With Kirk and Rasheeda Frost
A portion of the show was dedicated to a Kandi Koated Nights-style segment, often referred to by fans as involving a “sex dungeon” or intimate discussion format. Burruss invited Kirk Frost and Rasheeda Frost, known from reality television, onto the stage. Reports describe Rasheeda straddling Kirk during this interactive portion, which drew notable reactions from the audience.
Images from the show appear to capture elements of this stage interaction, including a seated individual in red attire and additional figures consistent with guest or audience participation. The Frosts have been longtime friends and associates of Burruss, and their appearance was advertised in advance.
The Kandi Koated Nights segment provided a contrast to the more serious revelations earlier in the show. Attendees described the segment as entertaining and consistent with Burruss’s previous live events.
Phone-Free Policy Limits Video, Attendee Recaps Fill the Gap
The venue enforced a strict phone policy requiring attendees to lock their devices in Yondr pouches upon entry. Many attendees reported that they were unaware of the policy until they arrived. The policy resulted in a lack of video footage from the performance, with most information coming from secondhand recaps posted on TikTok and other platforms.
Several TikTok accounts provided detailed recaps of the show, including descriptions of Burruss’s entrance, the cheating revelation, and the performances. The photographs circulating appear to have been taken by an account that may have been affiliated with production or obtained under less restricted circumstances.
The phone policy is standard for artists who wish to prevent unauthorized recording of new material or sensitive content. In this case, it also prevented the spread of video showing the specific text messages or Burruss’s direct on‑stage delivery of the cheating details. The lack of video has made the attendee recaps the primary source of information about the show’s content.
Conclusion
Kandi Burruss performed a one‑woman show that confirmed her ex‑husband Todd Tucker cheated. She said she found text messages in July 2025 and that his dismissive response pushed her to file for divorce. The show included a white wedding dress, a song called “My Man Cheated on Me,” and a Kandi Koated Nights segment with Kirk and Rasheeda Frost.
Attendees locked their phones in pouches, so no video has surfaced. The photos show Burruss in costume on stage. The divorce was finalized in March 2026. Burruss has moved on to a tour. The show sold out. The audience sang along. Tucker has not responded to the specific claims made during the performance. The truth of the matter is now part of Burruss’s stage show.
The public can decide what to believe.