Todd Tucker reveals he and Kandi Burruss had threesomes throughout most of their marriage; Kandi hits back calling his comments a bid for “5 minutes of fame” [VIDEO]
The comment appears in a trailer for Tucker’s post-divorce project, which also pitches a sports bar with other former Real Housewives of Atlanta husbands
Todd Tucker said in a trailer for his post-divorce project that he and Kandi Burruss had threesomes for most of their marriage. The clip, which went viral earlier this week, shows Tucker driving while Peter Thomas rides as passenger. Thomas asks whether the threesome talk is for real. Tucker confirms it. He says most of their marriage. Thomas replies that he is a saint by comparison.
The trailer is for Todd Tucker’s ‘Til Divorce Do Us Part. The same montage pitches a sports bar involving several former Real Housewives of Atlanta husbands. Burruss responded two days later with a statement to PEOPLE. She called the disclosure sensationalism and said his behavior confirmed she did the right thing by getting divorced. She did not deny that consensual threesomes occurred.
Confirming the Threesomes in a Car Ride with Peter
In the car, Thomas asks whether the threesome talk is real. Tucker answers: “We did. We did. I would say most of our marriage we did.” Thomas replies that he is a saint and asks for real. Tucker confirms again. The tone of the car scene is casual and confirmatory rather than detailed or defensive. Tucker does not name partners, dates, or frequency beyond the phrase most of our marriage. He does not describe the encounters themselves.
The clip is not a single continuous conversation. It is a trailer-style montage that cuts among several settings and speakers. A dark lounge, kitchen, car, restaurant, and bar interior all serve as locations. Overlay text identifies the project. The longer related trailer includes title cards, nightclub footage, and an end card advertising theater premieres from October to December 2026. Tucker has separately said the project began as a response to Kandi Burruss’s one-woman show I Do, I Did, I’m Done, and that he was angry at being pulled into its marketing.
The threesome subject is not new to this couple. In Season 9, Phaedra Parks and Porsha Williams told Sheree Whitfield that Shamea Morton was involved with both Burruss and Tucker. Burruss and Morton denied that specific rumor. Burruss later said she had experienced threesomes with a man and another woman in the past. In 2023, she said threesomes with Tucker do not happen that often, that they did not involve random partners, and that one had occurred in the previous six months. Tucker’s 2026 trailer line describes a higher frequency than Burruss’s 2023 public characterization.
Pitching a Sports Bar Business Idea
The same montage addresses a proposed business. Tucker pitches a sports bar involving the assembled former RHOA-adjacent men. Dennis McKinley is shown as reluctant to partner with Ralph Pittman Jr. Pittman says Tucker owes him another wife after Tucker created The Pass, a project that starred Pittman’s then-wife Drew Sidora. McKinley’s hesitation is presented as a conflict among the men, not as a fully resolved deal.
The clip does not include a signed agreement, a location, or a finalized name for the bar. The montage also places Tucker with Apollo Nida and McKinley in domestic and lounge settings. The conversations as cover the former RHOA relationships, life after divorce, and what the men want to do next. However, this part of the show has gotten considerably less attention than the discussion of the threesomes.
Tucker’s own promotional framing for the project is: “Kandi’s tour gave you one side. This is the other side. What she didn’t say. What went down behind closed doors.” That line is marketing copy attached to the project, not necessarily spoken inside the 57-second clip itself.
The RHOA Ex-Husband Roll Call
Peter Thomas was married to Cynthia Bailey from 2010 to 2017. He has operated sports-bar businesses in the past. Coverage of the current trailer also notes a later federal sentence related to failure to pay parole taxes. However, he was released after serving part of an 18-month sentence.
Apollo Nida was married to Phaedra Parks from 2009 to 2017. In 2014 he pleaded guilty to conspiracy to commit mail, wire, and bank fraud and received an eight-year federal sentence. He and Tucker were publicly associated after Nida’s release. Meanwhile, Parks’ marriage to Nida unraveled on RHOA while those charges were pending.
Dennis McKinley was engaged to Porsha Williams and share a daughter. On the other hand, Ralph Pittman Jr. was married to Drew Sidora. That divorce was finalized in 2026. As previously stated, Tucker produced The Pass, which starred Sidora. Ralph treats that project as a reason Tucker owes him another wife.
X Calls This Show “Loser Content” and Delivers Marge Simpson Jokes
The people on X did not hold back when it came to their opinions of the show. One widely liked reply called the participants “a bunch of losers who got dumped coming together to talk abt getting dumped.” Other users wrote “All losers” and “Now he’s tryna used the guys.” A separate comment said the proposed sports bar carried “too much bad energy.” As a result, the grouping of Tucker, Thomas, Nida, McKinley, and Pittman was treated as the joke as much as the threesome line.
Users treated an “Ex Husbands of RHOA Sports Bar” as inherently comedic. One quote of the longer trailer wrote, “An Ex Husbands of RHOA Sports Bar — Todd Tucker is a KEE.” The business pitch was read as content packaging more than as a serious hospitality plan. Meanwhile, a reply that gained traction said Apollo Nida’s hair “is sending me. he looks like marge simpson.” Follow-up comments in the same thread joked that a chain looked like Marge Simpson’s pearls.
Some users said they had been “rooting for Todd” and that “Mama Joyce was right.” Others called Kandi Burruss “a nasty piece of work” after the threesome line. Several commentators assumed the disclosure was confirmation that Burruss’s prenup and financial position had protected her. One user wrote, “That prenup was air tight.” Several posts acknowledged that the threesomes were already known from RHOA and from Burruss’s own 2023 comments. However, they treated the “most of our marriage” comment as the new information. After Burruss’s statement, a second wave of posts shifted from the trailer to her language about sensationalizing their private life and “five minutes of fame.”
Inside Todd and Kandi’s High-Profile Divorce
Kandi Burruss announced she was moving forward with divorce on November 21, 2025. Her statement said she was focusing on peace, family, co-parenting, work, and personal growth. She later said on “Watch What Happens Live” that a specific incident in July 2025 is when she knew the marriage could not continue. She has not publicly detailed that incident. The divorce was finalized in March 2026.
Their settlement included joint legal and physical custody, no ongoing child or spousal support, a lump-sum payment of about $426,000 from Burruss to Tucker, division of vehicles, sale of a shared food truck, and Tucker’s departure from Burruss’s guest home within 15 days of the parenting agreement. Meanwhile, Real-estate details were redacted in public filings.
Earlier this year, Burruss launched a stage show titled I Do, I Did, I’m Done. Tucker’s project is marketed as a counter narrative. Ticketed screenings have been announced for New York, Detroit, and Chicago in October. Meanwhile, additional dates are set through December, sometimes paired with his film Don’t Bring Your Man to Atlanta and a live Q&A.
The Official Statement from Kandi Burruss
Kandi Burruss gave PEOPLE a statement this afternoon (September 16). In her statement, Kandi called Tucker a man who has already hurt her to her core. Then, she elaborated by saying he is furthering the damage by choosing to sensationalize their sex life to stretch his five minutes of fame. The statement continues, saying what consensually happens between a husband and wife in the privacy of their marriage is exactly that. Private. She said his current behavior has only confirmed that she did the right thing by getting divorced.
While she did not deny that consensual threesomes occurred, she objected to Tucker publicizing them after the divorce. The public record of the marriage now includes two competing accounts of frequency. Burruss had already acknowledged occasional threesomes. Tucker’s wording converts occasional into most of our marriage. The dispute is now about disclosure and control of the narrative, not about whether the activity happened at all.
Prior to this, co-parenting had appeared relatively civil, including a post-divorce Bermuda trip with the children.
Final Thought
The dispute is now about disclosure and control, not whether the activity happened. Kandi had already acknowledged occasional threesomes. Tucker’s wording converts occasional into frequent. Because her statement treats the bedroom as private after divorce, the disagreement turns on who gets to describe the marriage once it is over.
While Todd’s project is structured as a rebuttal, Burruss has a tour title that declares closure. Tucker’s marketing says her tour gave one side and his project is the other. Using other ex-husbands multiplies the number of Bravo-adjacent grievances in one package, which is commercially useful and imports old legal and personal baggage.